1. Ask a guy for help.
Ask him for advice on
buying a new computer. Ask him to listen to that weird rattling sound that’s
started up in your car. Ask him to reach something on the top shelf. Then thank
him warmly, with a great big smile of appreciation. No, that doesn’t make you
needy. It makes you a woman with space for a man in her life.
2. Take pleasure in male company.
Guys love women who
appreciate men for just being men. So what if his apartment is a shrine to
sports? So what if he spends hours on his fantasy football team? So what if his
idea of a clean shirt is the one with the fewest wrinkles? He’s a guy. It’s okay.
You don’t need him to be more like you, because you’ve got the feminine side of
the gender equation covered.
3. Let him earn your respect.
Superheroes love
challenges. They don’t want to be given a gold medal just for showing up. They
don’t want your love handed to them on a plate. They want to earn it. There’s
one thing they crave even more than a woman’s eternal enduring love: A
challenge. So give him opportunities to prove himself. You don’t have to do the
work of winning him over. Sit back, relax, and allow him the pleasure of
winning your admiration.
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